Girls – getting a guy isn't too hard. Example: go up to any guy with a pick up line and, more than likely, it'll work. On the other hand, guys don’t always have the luxury of using any pick up line – somehow, girls do. Now, with that being said, there are things even girls shouldn't say or do because they can scare a guy away. Want to know how to get a guy? Here are some things to keep in mind before going out on the man hunt.
1. Destroy Your Desperation
Some guys think girls who act cute and uninterested are awkwardly hot. Why is that? They like a challenge. Of course, acting uninterested (when you really are) requires some level of skill, a skill many girls inherently have. What you don’t want to do is take it too far because you can accidentally bruise a guy’s ego or give the wrong impression. So, use your disinterest sparingly and pay attention to how he responds to you. That way, you can know if you’re taking it too far.
2. Dress to Impress
Girls, look your best. It’s very true. The more time you put into how you look, the more you'll be noticed. Perk up your breasts, use what you got, buy what you don’t and just look your best. Do what you have to do to catch a guys attention since often times, guys look at the physical first. When you look good, you feel good. But note to girls – if you want to know how to get a guy, remember: don't get too cocky. You might scare him away.
3. Use Eye Contact
The eye-game from across the room can be a turn on for men. So, do it. Say Hi… with just your eyes. Look over at him once in a while and when he looks back, look inviting. He might just come over.
4. Laugh, Smile, be Funny
A sense of humor is a great turn on. Sometimes, a guy would rather talk with a girl he can laugh with over the hottest girl in the room.
5. Be Playful
Physical abuse. Weird, but guys love it (to an extent of course). Nonchalantly touching a guy on the shoulder or on the chest can make a guy break a sweat and his heart skip a beat. No joke. Even punching him in the arm can be slightly arousing to him. Ultimately, if you want to know how to get a guy, be playful and flirtatiously touch him from time to time.
6. Elaborate on Common Interests
If somehow you find out that you have a lot in common with a guy, share what you know about the topic – share everything – but, of course, don’t forget to give him a chance to talk too.
7. Be Yourself
In the long run (even if the long run means till the end of the night) you want to be yourself. It'll make things much easier because you won’t have to put on an act all night. Also, remember that nobody can get everybody to love them, there’s always a hater out there or an incompatible match. The best way to filter out the best from the rest is to be yourself and they will come.
8. Avoid Gossip
When you’re in a conversation with a guy, don’t start talking about the he-said she-said and especially your ex-boyfriend or the new bitch he’s with. The only guys who'll care to hear it are probably gay. Gossip is boring. It’s sometimes difficult to follow and it’s mean to force a guy to pretend that he really cares about your gossip. Keep the conversation light and if you want to get deep into a discussion, go for it. If he doesn’t seem interested, move on to the next topic of discussion.
9. Mention your Hobbies
Bring up things that you like to do. If a guy is interested in you, he'll want to hear more about the things you like, and who knows, he might even have similar interests. From here your conversations can get deeper and more intimate.
10. Show Real Interest
To make a guy feel good about himself it’s as simple as looking at him while he’s talking. But you want to take it further. You want him to talk about what he does for a living or what he likes to do and you also want to sprinkle the conversation with your opinions as well. Don’t just sit there and nod like a dummy! Ask questions and really make him feel like you want to get to know him. Now, that's how to get a guy.
