It’s something we overlook at times – reading people’s gestures.  If you want to know how to get a girl, you have to pay very close attention to how a girl reacts to how you act. Their responses can be very telling. It’s obvious that if she’s laughing at all your jokes even though they aren’t that funny or you notice that she’s really paying attention to the semi-boring stories you’re telling – well, then you know you got her.  But, if she’s not too interested in you, that’s perfectly ok, just move on. Usually, girls know pretty quickly whether or not they want to hook up with you. So, if you happen to slip off her radar, no worries, on to the next one.

Now, if you really like a girl even though she might not like you, something drastic has to change in the way she views you. Changing how someone views you can be quite difficult; it can take some planning or it can happen by pure accident. If she’s worth the time, go for it, just don’t forget: there are plenty of Spring Break girls out there. Learning how to get a girl is also about time management: knowing which girls are worth your time and which ones are a waste of time.

She might look cute biting her lip, but that usually means that she is nervous or really shy. During a conversation with a shy girl, try to make her feel comfortable. Tell a joke, but make sure it’s the best one you’ve got because a bad joke could make her feel even more uncomfortable. Shy girls may be fun to talk to or fun to try to talk to. Treat them like women and be fully attentive to what they have to say.

Some people think that if a girl’s arms are crossed while talking with you, she may not be that into you. But, if the girl is hot, don’t let this stop you. Crossed arms can simply be an expression of her mood at the moment. To figure out why a girl has her arms crossed, first, you have to figure her out. To do so, pay careful attention to her expressions.  Be a good listener and be able to hold a conversation. So, approach her with confidence and try to make her laugh. If she doesn’t seem like she wants to talk, push forward a bit, but if she continues to avoid conversation, let her be. It’s best that you move on and lucky you, sacrificing a night of partying for a girl that’s not interested is not how to get a girl on Spring Break.

This article is broken down into different sections with advice on how to get a girl: